Reflecting on a
moment, reflecting on an action, reflecting on an emotion and reflecting on the
reason can be a means to get back on track.
I had paddled out with
an over amplified level of stress, it was busy and the vibe was pretty hectic.
It was at my local break and it seemed like everybody wanted a wave right there
and then. The trouble was so did I, I had to get a wave, one wave and it felt
like my life depended on it.
I joined the pack and
began hustling for a wave, I stopped, I was in position, I turned and paddled,
but so did the guy inside of me up the line who had just had a wave, he’d
paddled back past me into the deeper spot and this annoyed me right there and
then. It was my wave because in my mind I had claimed it, I just needed one to
settle me down and did not care that others might have been waiting too.
I paddled
aggressively, making it obvious that I was going no matter what, I got to my
feet and watched as a long left lined up and unravelled itself in front of me
and then It happened. Out of habit, I glanced right and spotted the poo-stanced,
pop-out riding kook coming down the line toward me. I did the honourable thing
and pulled out, I could have kept going but that’s not me on the majority of
occasions.
Instead I raised my
hands in the air and shouted “C..T”.
People shot me bemused
looks, a friend made a comment and I was instantly embarrassed and quite
rightly so. The guy had done nothing wrong. I felt stupid, and pretty ashamed
of myself. The guy was not the problem; it was my own emotions. I should not
have paddled out that day, but I felt annoyed that this one guy had the right
to have two waves on the trot. So what, I’ve done it loads of times, I’d
paddled past the pack this day and chose my spot, so I asked myself did this
happen for a reason?
On reflection, to feel
embarrassed, stupid and angry when out surfing goes against everything that
surfing is all about. I suppose when paddling out with these emotions surfing
has the ability to help if you let it. I
was trying too hard, being impatient and chasing respite. If I learnt any
valuable lessons that day it would be patience and humility must go hand in
hand with surfing. For myself, letting go of a lot of unnecessary stresses are
the result of that moment in time.
I can surf, I am happy
with my surfing, surfing is part of me, I do not need every wave that comes
along and nor should I. Feeling angry, stressed and emotional are good reasons
to paddle down the beach a little, finding some solitude and space is the
better option. I never wanted to bring
my negativity into other peoples day but I did and it affected me more than
them, I looked stupid, they looked at me in the same vain as I look at people
when their behaving like an idiot, so in fact, rather than take your stress out
on others in the surf, go for
a bike ride instead.
1 comment:
I've gotten out of the habit of reading others' blogs and gotta say I really liked this one. I like to swim around with a camera when it's busy lke that. The brine is naturally healing and sometimes I get anice pic as well. cheers
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